Make it special…
I just got back from my vacation with my best friend. It was so relaxing and wonderful. We were talking a lot since we haven‘t seen each other in a long time.
And there was always one topic which was present in our conversations. I bet you can guess what it was!
It was about love and relationships.
My friend Valentina broke up with her boyfriend almost a year ago and now she wants to start again and she wants to do it right and I love what she asked me.
She asked me:“ Nini, I would love your advice on the topic around love and relationships so can you tell me something? – What can I do to make the relationship with a new man special? – I don‘t want to do the same things again, it should be unique, every time we meet!“
I thought, wow that‘s an interesting question and I gave her some advice on that. And now I really want to share it with you. I just have 3 simple thought I shared with Valentina and which I‘m now sharing it with you.
But don‘t do it just because it has to be done. NO… that could move in the wrong direction.
If he is coming home from work and he is still stressed out or furious leave him alone and give him the time to calm down. He isn‘t a machine who can switch between work and home. Sometimes he is already in a good mood when he enters the room but sometimes he needs time to center.
If he is present and calm, take your time and KISS him. Do it consciously.
And with the kiss – touch him… Give him a hug or touch his chest, because with that touch you will anchor the positive feelings he has while you are kissing him. I already wrote about the magic of touch, have you read it? If not here is the link ( MAGIC OF TOUCH).
Then you will understand what I am talking about
The second advice I have for you is LISTEN to him carefully because he is telling you what he really wants and what he needs. If you know what he needs, give this to him because, as I always say, if you give what he needs, he gives you back what you need automatically!!!
Don‘t lose your HUMOR…because it is very important if you want to have a good relationship.
Do something fun each week. It doesn‘t have to be something that costs a lot of money. Something both of you think is funny and if you are happy, then the moment will always be special for the two of you because you are happily in love with each other. So watch your favourite comedy movie and laugh about the funny scenes.
So if you want your relationship to be special or intense follow my advice..But always do it consciously.
If you have more questions or if you want an advice on something else just email me: firstname.lastname@example.org
I am always happy to listen to people‘s stories and I love to help!!
Be happy, funny and positive